A complete guide to 'one lawyer, two client' divorce

In response to the changing attitudes around divorce, it is now possible for a divorcing couple to seek to end their marriage jointly, with the help of one lawyer. The ‘one lawyer, two client’ divorce is a landmark change to the traditional approach.

If you are looking to reduce conflict in your divorce and would like the focus to be on compassion and collaboration, a ‘one lawyer, two client’ divorce might be right for you and your spouse. This approach to handling divorce discussions has long been called for by legal professionals.

Our partner and head of family law, Sharon Giles is one of a handful of practitioners to complete the specialist training with Resolution Together, which is endorsed by the Solicitors Regulation Authority (SRA). Here, we answer some questions, which are commonly asked by couples interested in a ‘one lawyer, two client’ divorce and looking to explore whether or not it’s right for them.

You can also watch our video on the ‘one lawyer, two client’ approach to find out more.

• Who is a ‘one lawyer, two client’ divorce suitable for?
• What are the main benefits of joint advice?
• How is this approach different from a conventional divorce?
• What happens if a disagreement arises during the discussions?
• What are the first steps to take if we would like to proceed with a ‘one lawyer, two client’ divorce?
• What does the ‘one lawyer, two client’ process involve?

Who is the ‘one lawyer, two client’ divorce suitable for?

There are many couples who don’t want their divorce to be a battle.

The single lawyer model is suited to divorcing couples who respect each other, and who are committed to cooperating with each other and separating amicably. It is crucial that you and your spouse can communicate openly and honestly, and you must be willing to discuss delicate issues like finances, dividing property and assets, and the custody of children openly.

Part of the screening process used to determine whether or not a couple is suitable for this approach will involve an initial discussion about the dynamics of the relationship, and whether or not there is any history of abuse.

What are the main benefits of joint advice?

As well as simplifying the divorce process, there are a number of benefits to using a single lawyer for your divorce:

• Less conflict and confrontation – divorce can take an emotional toll on everyone involved, especially children, and this less confrontational approach often helps reduce emotional strain and encourages more constructive communication between a divorcing couple, which is especially valuable when co-parenting.
• Transparency – with both spouses involved, they are both hearing the professional advice being given and therefore retaining more control over the discussions, together.
• Cost-effectiveness – working with one lawyer instead of two reduces the overall cost of your divorce
• Consistency – having one lawyer oversee your divorce reduces the chances of misunderstandings or misinterpretation of legal guidance. This consistency helps streamline the process and limits the potential for conflict.
• Efficient use of time – having only one lawyer removes the back-and-forth that occurs between two seperate legal professionals, which as a result streamlines the divorce proceedings and helps discussions to move and conclude more quickly.

How is this approach different from a conventional divorce?

In a traditional divorce, couples are often positioned as opponents, with each lawyer advocating solely for their client. This dynamic can heighten conflict, deepen resentment, and prolong divorce proceedings.

In contrast, working with just one lawyer shifts the focus toward collaboration. The process often feels more like mediation, with a focus on finding solutions that are mutually acceptable for both spouses, rather than achieving individual victories.

What happens if a disagreement arises during the discussions?

If disagreements arise, other methods may be used to help to reach a resolution, such as mediation. 

What are the first steps to take if we would like to proceed with a ‘one lawyer, two client’ divorce?

Willans’ family lawyers will meet with both of you in the same room to explain the process and assess whether a ‘one lawyer, two client’ divorce is appropriate for your situation. Both spouses will also have the opportunity to speak to the lawyer on their own and raise any concerns.

Suitability depends on a shared willingness to engage openly and honestly, with mutual respect, in a safe environment. Ensuring both parties feel safe is crucial to the process, so the initial meeting will include a discussion about your relationship dynamics. If both of you wish to move forward and we agree that your case is suitable, both parties will have the opportunity to speak to the lawyer on their own.

What does the process involve?

If both of you wish to move forward and providing you and your spouse pass the initial screening process, then your divorce discussions will take place in a series of meetings.

With all discussions and decisions recorded and with both spouses present at the meetings, there is no need for letters or ‘toing and froing’ between lawyers. Although their may be certain elements of the discussions that require further research, in most cases, a ‘one lawyer, two client’ divorce can be resolved in two or three meetings.

Our team of approachable family lawyers and chartered legal executives can help you with divorce, separation and finances, as well as child arrangements orders, and prenuptial agreements. We’re dedicated to achieving the best possible outcome for you and will provide thoughtful, supportive guidance throughout the process.